KandaceJoelle

Know Your Why, and the How Will Follow

My Why For the longest time, I carried the desire to write. Whole books lived in…
Where are my people? (right here)

Why Becoming Her is the bat signal for the early-rising, playlist-blasting, heart-led weirdos like me. Not…
All Gas, No Brakes: My Journey to Sobriety

I remember vividly sitting in the rehab intake office, staring at the walls, silently asking myself:…
📸 Post the Selfie. Be Proud. That Is the Point.

You will never be this version of yourself again.This age. This day. This moment in time.…
Start in the Mind: When You’re Overwhelmed and Don’t Know Where to Begin

There’s something paralyzing about not knowing where to start. You look around at the mess —…
The Strength in Letting Go: When Strength Looks Like Surrender

It’s the courage to feel deeply and still rise. We’ve been taught to wear strength like…
Becoming Starts Here

This isn’t just a blog. It’s a journey home to yourself. Whether you found your way…